How To Attract Women - Have Them Emotionally Invest In You

By Author: James Jenkins
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Before we move on understand this. If you observe the title, it says attract girls, NOT attract THE WOMAN.

Let me be direct. First Off, there is no way I can tell you guys how to get a particular girl. There are just so many variables that we cannot control for. I mean we are trying to understand people here, not engineering equations.

Next, if you are hung up on one particular girl, well, we have all been there before. Just understand that all our attraction for the girl will only serve to push her away, since it will be unlikely for her to be attracted to us when we are falling all over her before we even know her.

Okay, now let me tell you the secret, the secret of drawing any girls to you. EMOTIONAL INVESTMENT

That's right. We become attracted to anything that we place our personal time, sweat, feelings, and energy into. The more we work to accomplish something the more value it has to us. So the keystone to making girls to want us is to have them to invest in us. If you can mix that time or effort with feelings, the amount of their investment increases many times. ...
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This is one of the crucial reason, women experience attractions toward so called, bad boys or jerks. Those types of guys do not do things for girls. Instead, they work girls do things for them frequently. Hey, I am just saying that investment principle works, and works well! Just keep in mind, that any time she is investing her time, effort or money on you, her own investment in you grows your value in her eyes.

This is why it is almost completely negative to attempt to buy your way into someone's life. Because you are investing in her before she have invested anything in you. Guys, dating and relationships with girls should be a two-way street.

There are a numerous ways to get someone to invest time in us. However, the easiest way is via emotional conversation. A key point to note here is that she must be taking the time to invest effort into emotionally relevant conversation, and the more effort she puts, more likely she will feel attraction towards us.

Most guys never really figure out this stuff. And they never really date the most captivating women that they want because they are always trying buy the women's attention.

Now you understand more that majority of guys out there about dating and attracting girls. You can read more dating advices for guys here. Now go out there and put this point into use then let me know what you think.
Jame is the owner of NormalGuysDating.com, He is an experienced life coach who works with numerous clients from all works of life, both men and women.You can read more dating advices for guys on his blog.