Solve Classroom Management Problems With Perfect Praise

By Author: classroommng
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An obvious fact that we're all aware of as teachers is that a student, when
recognised for positive behaviour, will feel less inclined to seek attention in
inappropriate ways. Conversely, when a pupil's efforts are ignored, the chances
of them disrupting the lesson to gain some attention are greatly increased.

Young people need reassurance and encouragement if they are to continue to behave
appropriately.

The problem we have, as teachers, is that we are told to give out praise as much
as possible and that the solution to all our problems lies simply in repeatedly
telling pupils how well they are doing. We consequently find ourselves uttering
the same tired, weak, comments such as 'well done', 'that's really good!' and
'I like that'.

But these comments are a waste of time in terms of encouraging pupils - they are
just too wishy-washy. Praise must be sincere otherwise it is just hollow, worthless
and patronising.

If we want to improve the behaviour of pupils in our care we need to fully recognise
their individual efforts. ...
... Unless we praise effectively the associated benefits will
be lost.

The following two tips will help you deliver praise more effectively and thereby
reduce disruption in your classroom...

1) When you give verbal praise to a child - make them really feel it.
When you praise a child you make them feel your appreciation by telling them exactly
WHAT they did and WHY it was good.

True praise comes from genuinely noticing when they put effort into something or
have managed to complete something they wouldn't normally manage. When you give
thoughtful attention to a student's work like this work it demonstrates that you
recognize their work or improved behavior. Such deep appreciation builds self-esteem
and encourages continued progress.

"Paul, stand back and look at what you've done... this is a fantastic portrait! What
really impresses me is the way you've made that eye come to life by showing the
light reflecting here. That really makes it come alive!"

Now, doesn't that sound better than a wishy-washy statement like "Very good Paul"?

Praise isn't just for academic achievement either...

"John I'm so impressed. You've sat quietly for the last 10 minutes and got on with
your work. That's great because I've been able to go and help other pupils and I
haven't needed to shout at you. Well done!"

In both cases you're telling them WHAT they've done and WHY they should be pleased with themselves.

2) Send letters home to praise your pupils effectively...
Don't underestimate the power of the letter home as a form of praise and effective
behaviour management tool. This has such a positive impact on students - I only wish
I'd started doing it earlier in my career.

Sending a nice letter home can transform a previously negative child - literally
overnight - into one who is motivated and eager to please. This is also one method
that works well even with older pupils - right up to age 16 and beyond. It is also
very effective for pupils who don't accept public praise very well - a letter home
means their mates will never find out!

Letters home can be 'quick-notes' or more formal, traditional letters on school
headed paper. You can send out simple postcards for odd pieces of particularly
good work or award 'extra special' letters in response to sustained effort such as
after a pupil has earned 5 stickers (younger pupils) or 5 merits (older pupils).

Generic letters are very insincere so the best way to organize your praise letters
for speed and ease is to have two copies of your letter ready written in a file on
your computer - one for girls and one for boys. It's then just a matter of filling
in the name, printing it out on headed paper and either giving it to the pupil to
take home or posting it.

It is time consuming producing letters and copying them onto headed paper but it
definitely has a tremendous impact on individuals as well as helping create a
positive classroom atmosphere.

A brief word about rewards....

We shouldn't rely on rewards to change behaviour as they often end up being used as bribes. When rewards are promised in advance of a change in behaviour they provide, at best, only a temporary improvement - once the treats have all gone, the behaviour resumes. At worst they sustain and help build a society of young people who will only do as they are asked as long as they are given something of value in return. Our aim must be to TEACH appropriate behaviour and encourage students to behave appropriately for the right reasons and for the intrinsic rewards such behaviour brings - not just because they have been promised a treat or reward for doing so.

That doesn't mean we shouldn't give kids rewards now and again though - we just have to get the timing right. Remember - when rewards are promised in advance ("Do this and I'll give you this") they are nothing more than BRIBES. When they are spontaneous, unexpected and given AFTER an increased effort or positive change in behaviour they can 'mark the moment' very well and reinforce the behaviour we want to see.

The Million Pound Note£££/Million Dollar Note$$$ is a cool reward you might want to give out now and again when your students surprise you for the right reasons. Like any reward their novelty and appeal will wear out over time but you might just find, for a while at least, that these little slips of paper will make you very popular and give you a new lease of power in the classroom! :-)

You can get your Million Pound/Dollar note here:
www.classroom-management.org/coolreward.html