Is The Guy You're Dating Really Single?

By Author: Albert Mitchell
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Step 1: Notice his behavior

Previously he was always eager to hang out with you, and now the reasons for not able to spare extra time for you are piling up. The first reason for stomach pain or headache could be believed by you, but gradually you started wondering whether he is not willing to spend time with you. If you notice these kinds of signs then there are chances that your boyfriend is busy dating with other girl.

• At the initial stage of the relationship he managed extra time for you, and now he is more interested in boy’s night. The doubts may arise especially when he is not having so many male companions or never showed interest to hang out with brothers before.
• If he is suddenly loaded with office work or started working overtime almost every day; although he has occasionally worked for overtime in the past, suddenly things seem to be changed. Definitely, several professions have busy season, and it’s quite possible that he could be really busy working on a time-consuming project, but he is more likely to be busy with some other girl.

Step 2: Notice his speech and excuses

• Even ...
... if your boy-friend is not making excuses his conversations could sound like some other person. If there is unexpected change in his way of talking, then he might be thinking of another girl.
• If he did praise you all the while, and has now suddenly stopped the flattery, it may be possible that he is saving all the compliments for someone else.
• If you used to exchange long text messages, and now he has no time to return your texts till hours, then he might be busy chatting with the new lady or maybe she has just showed up.

Step 3: Notice if he is much more helpful than before:

• Your boyfriend must be having some severe guilt because he is aware that he is not loyal to you, which makes him nicer and tries to compensate for his betrayal.
• He starts doing tones of favors for you and helps you around at home for fixing your car, cleaning your residence or buying groceries for you, which he has never done before.
• He suddenly brings you flowers and chocolates especially when he was at away from you for a long period.

Step 4: Investigate or snoop through his stuff

• If you want to avoid conversations with your man, then snooping through his things is a prompt way to discover the secrets.
• You may check his mobile phone when he is asleep or look through his computer, inbox, facebook messages, if you know his password. It’s really fishy if you find his inbox empty as he might be deleting all his emails and messages.
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You may opt for hiring an online relationship coach like Maya who can guide you further to find out whether your partner is into multi-dating. She runs her own consultancy known as Rewarding Relationship in Miami since 2009 and has helped several individuals to get over the unhealthy relationships and find a perfect match.