You Can Save Your Marriage And Be Happy

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It is disheartening that so many marriages end and partners walk away broken, sad, and deeply hurt or angry. Two people who used to be madly in love and commitment to be with each other for life shouldn’t have to part and go their separate ways. If your marriage is struggling or if you’re just not happy, rest assured that there are ways you can save your marriage and be happy together once again.

Communication. Do you know what happens in a lot of marriages? One or both partners begin to lose interest in the other or carry around anger or disappointment for a long period of time without communicating the problems with each other. Arguments increase and unhappiness seems to rule. Instead of sitting down and having a heart to heart or getting some relationship help, the couple continues to grow apart. Step one in saving your marriage is to acknowledge that you’re having some problems and sit down and have a heart to heart.

What are the problems? Has he been distant for months? Is she miserable at work and carries her misery into the home? Is he verbally abusing her? Are the schedules so busy there ...
... is virtually no time spent together? Define the problems and then take the next step and come up with some solutions.

Create a plan. If you’ve sat down and discussed the problems in your marriage, work together to come up with an action plan on how you can save your marriage. If you want to be healthy and happy individually and as a couple, it will take some effort on both parts. There are several ways you can get help in saving your marriage.

Go to a relationship coach. Relationship coaches (or marriage councilor) have a lot of experiencing mending broken marriages and can oftentimes help you to overcome problems so that you can save your marriage. If you decide to go this route, be sure that both of you commit to be open and honest when it comes time to share feelings and hopes. It takes getting right down to the nitty gritty sometimes to help relationships get through the tough things. You may also not want to hear some things that the relationship coach may say or want to change some of your attitudes and behaviors, but all of that is important if you want to save your marriage.

Read relationship books. There are plenty of helpful relationship books and websites devoted to helping couples save their marriage and become healthy and happy. Do a simple Google search on books by relationship experts and commit to reading them and applying the principles to your marriage. You can also go to www.dashboardoflife.com.au and download the eBook How To Create The Ideal Relationship… You’d be surprised at how much you can learn from others who have devoted their lives to relationships and those who’ve been down the same road.

Make the effort. Do your best to remember how awesome your relationship was at the beginning. After all, you adored your spouse and vice versa. You got married because you felt a deep connection and love and you wanted to share life together, you had the ideal relationship... and you can again. It’s quite normal to encounter some obstacles and issues along the way but those don’t have to destroy your marriage. Sometimes it just takes a little bit of insight and work to change yourself and the direction of your marriage. Make the effort. The easier thing to do is nothing or to walk away. Stay and take the time and energy to do what it takes to save your marriage.
There’s hope for your marriage and for you and your partner to be happy and healthy together. Be proactive and commit to taking your marriage to a new, happier level by following these tips and advice.

About the Author : Evelyn Olivares is a professional writer and currently writing on how can i save my marriage and how do i get my confidence back.