What To Do When There’s No Intimacy In Marriage

By Author: jhon dell
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Life can certainly get busy with work, errands, chores, and other tasks. If you’re married with children, life can even get busier and sometimes you might find yourself facing the issue of no intimacy in marriage. It’s not because you don’t necessarily want intimacy; it’s probably due to being so busy day in and day out with your duties that there’s virtually no alone time and the chance that you can have intimacy in the evening after the kids are asleep dwindles because you’re both just so exhausted.

What do you do when you’re faced with this?

Communication and planning are essential when it comes to combating no intimacy in marriage. If you don’t have a strategy to work it in, it might not happen. The days when there were no children or very few responsibilities may be over, so strategic planning for intimacy may be required. There’s no shame in that. Plenty of married couples plan intimacy evenings or mini getaways so that they can enjoy quality intimate time together.

Discuss how often you’d like to be intimate and your options. Perhaps the kids can go to the grandparent’s ...
... house once a week or you can plan some intimate time while they are at school. There is always time once they are asleep- even if you’re tired. The key is to talk about it and plan for it.

If there’s no intimacy in marriage due to marital conflict, consider having a heart to heart and resolve your issues. If you can’t resolve them on your own, see a relationship coach for help. It’s no fun being in a marriage in which you or your partner is not happy and content; so make the effort to walk in harmony with each other and delight in your relationship. Remember the days when you first fell in love and recreate magical love making sessions as such. Reignite the passion and keep the fires of romance alive and well by committing to intimacy in marriage.

About the Author : Jhon Dell is a professional writer and currently writing on how can i save my marriage and how do i get my confidence back.