How To Stop Bullying And Cyber Bullying At School, At Work And At Home

By Author: Augustus Snyder
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You are being humiliated to when it comes to how you can stop bullying.

How's it possible - with all the public outcry, celeb foundations from likes of Lady Gaga yet others, bullying features upon Anderson Cooper, Oprah as well as Fox News; programs in our schools, local, federal and state policies and the tons and tons of free information online - which bullying and internet bullying is considered to be up 450% since 07?

Because everything we have been taught - and are still being taught about how to cope with bullying and internet bullying - is dead wrong. Almost all the information out there concerning bullying is based on 2 principles that were created out of power, manage and political correctness - “Turn the Other Cheek” and “Just Inform Someone” - what I contact, “The Two Big Lies”.

These two principles were distorted to fit agendas returning as far as four hundred many years. It is no wonder that the warping and editing of these two principles led us to exactly where we are today in society when dealing with intimidation - a bunch of whimpering, powerless victims, ...
... just about all searching for someone to stop the bullying and desperate, because everything we have been told to do to prevent bullying is not working.
While school program administrators, politicians, celebrities, academics and so-called “experts” imply well and probably honestly think that their positions on bullying are the best, the reality is all the touchy-feely, psycho-babble in the world doesn’t stop bullying. While we all would love for life to be like Sesame Road, where we all maintain hands and everyone gets along, the reality is this particular: we will never be able to quit bullying.

Bullying is hard-wired in our DNA. It's genetically programmed into the species. No one is actually going to be able to get which out of our hereditary programming. There are always going to be bullies, or small-minded people, or mean people, or even bigots. That is life, it's hard-wired in to our Genetic make-up and all the education, sensitivity training and exclusions in the world aren’t going to change it out. Furthermore, focusing on managing someone else’s behavior doesn't seem possible, as we all know the only thing we are able to control is ourself.

You are valuable. You are worth standing up for. You don't need permission from someone or something to stand up for yourself and need to be treated with regard. The worst thing you can do is turn to someone or something else to get a bully to stop because when you do, you've given your energy away to the bully and to the person or thing you considered for help.

You are the answer to how to stop bullying. It is about finding out how to stand up for yourself, how you can value yourself, how to be mentally, physically and emotionally strong enough to NOT let the bully take your power away.

The kind of training that WILL make a difference is the kind of education that does NOT focus on others, but focuses on YOU. What are YOU going to do in order to be stronger -- mentally, physically and emotionally -- so that you can handle bullying on your own if it happens? Bullying can cause life-long mental and emotional scars if you are not properly trained and conditioned with how to deal with the stress of bullying when it happens.

The principles and resources on how to do this aren't found in the schools. They are not found in textbooks, upon free websites regarding bullying or anywhere else. You can find them within the book, “Bullies Suck” available at http://www.ultimatebullyingsolution.com.

For more information on how to get the book, “Bullies Suck” - plus get a free video, “9 Indicators That Your Child has been Bullied” and a Free One month Test Drive to the “Ultimate Intimidation Solution Society” Newsletter - got to http://www.ultimatebullyingsolution.com. Uncover the truth about how to stop bullying today.

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