What Happened To True Compatibility

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You want to know how to find someone compatible with you. You want to know if your relationship will work. But first you have to know what you are really looking for. Today true compatibility has been lost and forgotten. In many cases it is never realized.

Still you long for true compatibility. But you were taught to deny or control the energies that make it possible. Relationships fall short of their true potential and fail far too often. This is because beliefs about winning and losing grow deep in our cultures and your psyche and emotions. People talk a lot about everyone winning. But they have not "emotionally" understood it … yet.

Our current social and cultural systems were designed for survival. When you endeavor to love in a survival based system, problems arise. A major problem is your access to the 3 Hidden Energies of Relationship is compromised. Their meaning and potency is lost.

These 3 energies are:

The energy within you

This is the energy you carry within. A useful start is to activate your Sun sign.

The energy of your differences

This is what's different ...
... about you both. It is described by the difference between your Sun signs. This energy can "come between you" or "bring you together". It is crucial to the success of any relationship.

The energy you create together.

This is the energy of you, your partner and your relationship. Without easy access to these energies, life became a struggle … for survival. For this to change, you need to resolve your survival issues.

When you look for compatibility, make sure it is not false compatibility:

False Compatibility is what you look for, when survival is your emotional bottom line. When you feel separated from abundance, energy and love, life is frightening. You see your partner's differences as a threat. You are tempted to control and win at your partner's expense. You avoid dealing with the sense of loss in your life. Surviving is more important than love. Your partner becomes your way out of pain.

True compatibility occurs when you handle survival AND love is your emotional bottom line. True compatibility is not something you have to achieve. It is a preference. True compatibility is fulfilling. Your fulfillment extends beyond yourself, to your partner and into your world. Your physical life together becomes a source of abundance and love. When you are fulfilled, you can be concerned with love because your survival issues have been resolved. This resolution is not just physical, i.e. lots of money or mental, i.e. a set of positive beliefs. It has to be emotional first. Then it will stick.

Relationships are about love and magic, not winners and losers. When survival is handled AND love is your priority, everyone wins.

To understand the difference between False and True Compatibility, look to Nature and the Stars. That is why zodiac signs and their differences are powerful places to start.

About The Author:

Christopher Power is a passionate writer who loves to write articles on Inspiration and relationship. He would like to invite you to find out more about Zodiac Love and Zodiac Sign Compatibility at your-zodiac-love-compatibility.com