How To Win Your Ex Back - Will My Ex And I Get Back Together

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Will I and my ex get back together if we have already broken up for a very long time?

Well, it depends on several conditions. Usually, the longer you have broken up, the lower your chances are. However, this is not necessary true. There are cases of couples getting back together after one year of separation. In fact, the one year separation might have played the part of helping them get back together.

In fact, I have even heard of couples getting back together after being separated from one another for a few decades. Of, these are the more unusual cases and we are not going to focus on them in this article.

So, how do I know what are my chances of success to get my ex back.

First, has he/she moved on? Is he/she already dating another person and going steady. If that is the case, it is advisable that you moved on too. It is usually not such a good idea to be the third party and break up a couple. Certainly, you do not wish this to happen to you too.

However, if he/she is still single, that your chances of success is much higher. Of course, we also need to look at the reason why he/she has chosen ...
... to remain single. Ideally, he/she stays single because he/she still wants you back. Another reason is because he/she is afraid to be hurt again in another relationship.

Another factor that you will want to consider is whether he/she still calls you. If the answer is yes and he/she still calls you every now and then, then this is also an indication that your ex wants to be back together with you.