If I Still Have Feelings For My Ex Girlfriend - Should I Get My Ex Girl Back

By Author: Allan Lim
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Perhaps you still have feelings for your ex girlfriend and you are wondering how to get your girlfriend back. Maybe you are even thinking about whether to get your girlfriend back.

So, how can you come up with a good decision?

Well, we have to first look at how long you have already broken up with your ex. If that happens only a few days ago, you might not have enough time to seriously think about it yet. You do not want to rush the process.

If you have just broken up, I believe you might be going through a very tough time now and is dealing with an emotional turmoil. So, you might not really be clear enough in your mind to think about what you really want. Your girlfriend might be in the same situation as you.

Therefore, be easy to both yourself and your girlfriend. Give both of you a short break to sort through things in your mind. Perhaps, 30 days will be a good period of time. Don't contact her during this period, if it is possible. If you think you may need more time, feel free to give yourself a few more days before contacting her. Of course, you don't want to let it drag for too long either. ...
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Once you have come up with a decision and decided to contact her, there are two mistakes that you will probably want to avoid. Making these two mistakes can make it harder for you to get your girlfriend back.

1) If you called her and she never answers, don't call again on the same day. It is best that you wait a few more days. You don't want to appear desperate in front of her.

2) Don't argue over the break up or mention about anything on the break up. It is true that certain issues should be dealt with, but not during the first moment of your contact.