Get Back Together With Ex Lover - How Do I Get My Ex Back By Being Counter Intuitive

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Is it possible to get back together with ex lover? Perhaps, your lover has been hiding from you for a very long time. No matter what you do, you just could not reach him/her, so what should you do to get your lover back?

Well, sometimes, in order to get your ex back, you need to do something that is counter intuitive. Most of the time, people tend to make certain mistakes because they try to do something that seems intuitive.

For example, it is very normal that when your ex decided to avoid you, you become even more panicky and therefore start calling him/her repeatedly and probably send lot of text messages.

Why is it considered a mistake? Well, by calling him/her too often, he/she may become even more irritated and will want to avoid you even more. In fact, he/she will see you as someone who is desperate. This makes your ex wants to avoid you even more.

However, if you have already made the mistake mentioned above, don't worry too much. There are still things that you can do to correct your mistakes and even improve your situation.

What you want to do instead is to stop calling him/her ...
... altogether, at least for the next 30 days. When you suddenly stop calling him/her, he/she may start to wonder why you have stop calling altogether. Therefore, the next time you try to contact your ex, he/she will be more likely to answer you.

However, do take note that if you still can't reach him/her immediately, you don't want to call him/her again on the same day. You want to wait a few more days before calling your ex again. Who knows, your ex might even become curious and may even decide to call you back.