The Magic Of Making Up - How To Get My Ex Girlfriend Back

By Author: Allan Lim
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Is there really such a thing as the magic of making up, that can easily help you to get your ex girlfriend back to your side, and stay with you forever? Well, in case you are thinking that I am going to talk about magic here, well I am not.

But if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, it will be very helpful if you understand certain principles about how human beings behave. Once you understand these principles, you will start to realize why certain things don't work and may even make your situation worse.

Let us discuss one principle in this article.

It is, "People want what they do not have." Most probably, you may have come across this principle at one point in time. What this principle is trying to say is that when people want something, but they do not have them or cannot get access to them easily, their desire for it will increase even more.

Similarly, when someone can get something very easily or they have a lot of it, they will not treasure that thing as much.

This principle applies to many areas of your life, including your relationship. When people do not understand this ...
... principle, they will start to do things that tend to make the situation worse, instead of helping them.

One very common mistake many guys made when trying to get ex girlfriend back is:

Calling girlfriend over and over again

Why doesn't this work? Well, when you keep on calling your girlfriend again and again, it shows that you are desperate to get her back. Of course, she will know that you are desperate. So, what does that implies?

Well, it implies that she can get you very easily. According to the principle, since she can get you easily, she will not treasure you as much.

Most probably, you may already have made some of those mistakes yourself. But don't blame yourself. Sometimes, it is really easy for us to make those mistakes, especially when we are going through such a tough time as a break up.