How To Win Back My Ex - Things To Take Note Before Getting Back Together With Your Ex

By Author: Allan Lim
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So, you are wondering, "How to win back my ex?" Well, there are definitely steps you can take to get your ex back but before that, I would suggest that you ask a better question.

"How to win back my ex and keep him/her by my side."

The reason why I suggest this is because most of the time, the first thought that comes to people mind after a break up is that they want to get back together as soon as possible.

What they usually fail to realize is that a break up doesn't occur out of the blue. There is always at least one underlying reason that leads to a break up. If you never deal with this underlying reason, you are not tackling the root of the problem.

So, even if you manage to get your ex back, chances are you will see the old problem resurfacing again and might cause you to go through a break up for the second time. Why would you want to suffer twice?

First, you must analyze what cause the break up? Does the problem lies with you? Are you willing to change for the sake of the relationship? If your answer is no or a "hesitant yes", you might want to think again.

If the problems lie ...
... with your ex, is he/she willing to change. Don't make the mistake of thinking that you can change your ex. You can't change another person unless he/she wants to change.

Or perhaps the problems lie with both of you. So are both of you wiling to work out this problem together? Even if I can show you how to get your ex back, it would be pointless if both of you could not resolve the underlying problems.

It is only by dealing with this root problem that you can get your lover back and keep your lover by your side.