Get Back Your Ex Girlfriend And Stop Your Breakup Now

By Author: Allan Lim
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So you are trying to get back your ex girlfriend. But she doesn't seem to respond. What should you do next?

If you want to stop a breakup, you need to ensure that you do not continue to do the things that will drive her further away,

So, what are the things that will drive her away? Well, these are actually common mistakes made by many guys just after a break up. Perhaps, you may think those are the right things to do. Unfortunately, those are exactly the wrong things that you should have avoided in the first place.

Most probably, by the time you are reading this article, you may have already made some of the mistakes that we are going to discuss below. But don't fret too much about it now because there are still many things that you can do to erase your mistakes and improve your situation.

With that said, let us look at these common mistakes:

1) Contacting your girlfriend too many times too soon

You don't want to call her several times per day. Perhaps, she did not answer your call. You will want to wait for a few more days before you call her again. The main reason is because you ...
... don't want to appear desperate before her.

If you have just broken up with her a few days ago, you shouldn't even call her again until at least one month later. You should use this period to allow both of you time to cool down.

2) Stalking your girlfriend

Stalking comes in many forms. You try to guess where she will be going and you purposely go there, hoping to bump into her. Or you may be trying to spy on her. Maybe you think she is dating another guy?

Refrain from doing that. How are you going to explain yourself if you are caught? It is going to land you in a very embarrassing situation.

In fact there are many more things that you should avoid doing and the psychological reasons behind why these actions make things worse. However, I won't be able to go through all of them in this article.

But let us just briefly state some more things that you should avoid doing:

1) Getting yourself drunk. You might call her and say something that you will never have say if you are sober.

2) Harassing her friends and family members, asking them why she breaks up with you.

3) Telling her you love her deeply and "Come back!"

4) Saying sorry repeatedly for what you did.

5) Crying in front of her.