How To Get Your Boyfriend Back - Faq On How To Stop Breakup

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If you are thinking about how to get your boyfriend back, then it is very important to know what you must never attempt to do. However, if you have already done some of them, do not worry too much about it. What you should do now is to stop doing those things immediately.

In this article, I will answer a question. After reading it, you should have a basic awareness of what are the things that you are not suppose to be doing.

Question:
Hi,

My boyfriend of 5 years has just broken up with me a few days ago. He said we are simply not compatible with each other and should break up. I cried and tried my best to reason with him but it doesn't seem to help. What should I do next? Please help!

Answer:

Hey, thanks for your question. I understand that you must be feeling quite lost and confused now and you may be wondering how to get your boyfriend back.

I see that you have tried to argue and reason with him about the break up. Perhaps, you can't accept the reason given for the break up. This is very normal. However, I would suggest that you do not try to argue over the break up with him ...
... again. This will only make it more difficult to get your boyfriend back,

It doesn't matter whether the reason he gives is valid or true. What is important for you to know is that, by arguing with him, it will only make him more defensive and create even more argument. This is only going to cause your relationship to worsen.

Since you have already done it, do not worry too much about it for the moment. What you want to do now is to tell him that after thinking through things for a few days, you think he is right for initiating the break up. However, tell him that both of you are still friends.

Then suggest that both of you need some time to think things through. It is best not to meet up for the time being. Perhaps, 1 month will be a good timing. This will make it easier to get your boyfriend back. After that, you can ask him out again.

During this one month, it is usually quite hard for you not to think of your boyfriend. However, no matter how hard it is, you will want to try to focus on yourself instead. Improve yourself! It can be your dressing, your health or anything that will make you more attractive. When your boyfriend sees the changes taking place in you, he may even regret his decision of breaking up with you.