Sequence And Association: Looking At Mentors

By Author: Todd Royer
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This article may be reprinted in newsletters and on websites, with resource box included. If using this article, please send a brief message to: toddroyer@toddroyerwriting.com -- word Count= 331 words with 39 word resource box -- word Wrapped to 55 characters-per-line. -- URL: http://www.toddroyerwriting.com/show.php?id=008 -- autoresponder: article8@royal-responder.com --author photo: http://www.toddroyerwriting.com/pic.htm --date of copyright: August 2005 This article was checked by spamcheck and is spam-safe. Sequence & Association: Looking at Mentors and Models Whenever I look outside myself for guidance, I seek to feel an experience. On the other hand, when I'm looking for answers, I seek information. The difference is feeling and thinking and when it comes to mentors and models it's important to make this distinction. A mentor is not really a source of information; a mentor is an access ...
... point to experience. You want to know how your mentors and models feel about the problems they encounter so you can learn from their experience. My first boss was in his sixties when I started working for him; I was in my twenties. John had built his own business from the ground up and in his sixties he had a thriving business with hundreds of clients. He served as my first mentor. Sometimes he'd give me specific information that was helpful, but rarely information I couldn't find elsewhere. But what he provided was both model and mentor for how to feel about sales situations. I could look to him for leadership in handling new accounts and he always had a positive enthusiastic personae. His confidence carried me through many of my first big deals. It's amazing how much can be learned by simply watching a person who truly knows what they're doing. And fortunately for all of us, there are these competent people all through society. Look for them. You don't even have to know them or have contact with them to learn from them. Of course, the closer you are the more you can absorb from a models personal energy. That's the real point of a mentor. Sure, some mentors will open doors and help with contacts and I don't mean to dismiss that, but in the long run, the most important gift a mentor provides is an emotional model. So don't look for information and the thoughts built on sequential thinking from your models and mentors. Absorb their positive energy and confidence. © by Todd Royer. All Rights Reserved. *******# # #******** Todd Royer has been writing for the internet for 2 years. He has helped hundreds of people with their professional growth. If you would like a free subscription to Career Development Weekly, click below: http://visitor.constantcontact.com/optin.jsp?m=1101053082339 ******************************** A list of Career Development articles by Todd Royer are available for reprint at: http://www.toddroyerwriting.com
About the Author Todd Royer is a seasoned career development specialist. He is experienced in managing organizational growth by recruiting competent confident people. Currently he is Senior Partner at DiscoveryTech, Technical Recruiting.