We Often Talk About Ourselves When We Chat

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Even though L and M are at the intimate time, they still live in their own word. This is a crude truth in the world: everyone is living in his owe world. At the day of L lost $50000 on his investment, while M was paining because of the menses. No matter how these two persons tried their best to take care about each other, the main painful was still about them: L lost $50000 on the investment and M was painful. It is a simple and kind reminder: we often talk about ourselves when we chat.

You were talking with your friends: “yesterday my ex-boyfriend was driving through my front when I throw the garbage out… oh my god; my forehead has two acnes…” at this time, your friends need to endure your reams of rubbish. If this person paid attention to listen to you, you will feel that he is your best friend. And he is the only person you can confide in the word. On another contrary, when you wanted to be liked by others, you need to put others on your own position. At this time, you have played a role of the best friend. The principle is very simple to play a role like this: control yourself do not say “I”. Every time ...
... you want to say “I”, you can change “I” to “you”. In ten minutes you will find that all the topics are lead by your friends.

I recognized a girl who lived with me before, and she was good at project herself. When I wanted to go to bed, she always talked many topics with me. More important was that I did not have any interest in them. For example, she said:” actually I know that… I have been that place before… I felt the dishes which I cooked are delicious…” I could not found any opportunities to interrupt her. In my eyes, her topics were ridiculous and boring and I did not have a good feeling to learn to her. Sometimes she liked to provoke the relationships of other people. The best way to solve the problem is to avoid her. How to learn to talk is a skill.

Every time when Tory is surfing online, he often thinks of playing online games to make teams with friends. He could make many RS Money and WOW power leveling to exchange real money.