Why We Need To Learn To Compromise To Others

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In modern life, compromise has become indispensable lubricant in interpersonal communication and it plays more and more important roles. In the market, buyers and sellers complete their deals through bargaining and compromise.

However, in some people’s eyes, compromise seems to be weak and not firm while uncompromised characteristic is the signal of hero. This kind of thinking recognize the relationship between people is conquering and being conquered, and there is no room for communication. In the real life, the relationship between people changes from relying and being relied to relying on each other. Let’s list trade as example. In the past, the shortage of foods decided the dominant position of sellers and prices were quite high. But now, in the buyers’ market formed under market economy, buyers and sellers rely on each other and they finally complete deals through bargaining. In this situation, if the two sides do not want to make a concession, they will lose their opportunity of living and development, and they will fail at last.

Compromise does not mean abandoning the principles and blind concessions. ...
... It should be distinguished into the wise and the unwise compromises. Sensible compromise is an appropriate exchange. In order to achieve the main goal, people can make the appropriate concessions in secondary goals. This compromise is not entirely giving up their principles, but to ensure the implementation of their requirements through the appropriate exchange. On the contrary, unwise compromise is the lack of proper balance or adhering to a secondary goal and give up the main goal, or the unnecessary high cost of compromise. Therefore, the wise compromise is a kind of art, and it is one of the essential qualities people should master to succeed in modern society.

Compromise is not only a sensible choice but also a kind of virtue. Compromise means the respect to others’ interest and regarding the two sides’ interests as same important. In the society of increasing equality, interpersonal respect is mutual. Only the one who respect others could win others’ admiration. Compromise could help people win others’ respect and become the wise and strong ones in life and career.

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