How To Understand And Read People's Selfishness

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Selfishness is a human instinct to survive, no surprise, then why we should understand this human selfish?

You can use it to explain the actions of others, thus you will not puzzle of others selfish, and are able to look at this with the usual heart.

Selfishness is a human instinct. People's many behavior is formed because of that. According to personality, education and different life experiences, selfish behavior also reflected in different forms.
One from is good. For example, most people have to work for boss, on the one hand, he is service to consumers, while making money, and he can feed themselves and their families to meet survival needs.

Another from is bad. This form of selfishness is not just to seek altruistic self-interest, this behavior, such as robbery, fraud, framed, betrayal, murder and arson, even more serious, threatening the lives of others.

For the general people, life-threatening things will not encounter, but the selfish behavior always hit you, you don’t care about this too much, you just learn how to deal with this selfishness due to create a harmonious relationship ...
... between two sides to get his help and cooperation.

In fact, if you want to do this, just meet other's selfishness.

How to do it?

First, from a negative point of view, you do not deprive other's interests, if you do that, it will harm to you, human's desire is endless, whether he is really need these benefits, you deprived, he will strain after that.

Second, from a positive perspective, to give other's interest, as long as he is willing to accept, then he will listen to you definitely. In addition o money, job is also a benefit, and the promotion can also buy people's heart, because it will satisfy with people's selfishness.

However, you should pay attention to two things when you meet the desire of others.

First, don’t meet other's satisfied one time, from a little too much.

Second, rich your resources all the time, let the other party believe you, they are willing to keep a good relationship with you, once, the benefit is gone, maybe they will leave you. If you come across this situation, you do not have to sigh, because this is the inevitable human nature.

In addition, you cannot ignore the people in the spiritual and psychological aspects of selfish, that is to say, people like to be respected, you respect him, and he will give you smile.

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