How To Compose Your First Letter To Russian Women

By Author: Nona Amourova
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As soon as you placed an ad on a Russian dating site, the following step is writing your introduction letter. If you take the whole process seriously, a well-written first letter is your chance to attract attention of a woman who possibly will become your future life time partner.

Make sure your first letter sounds friendly, positive and polite. Have you met many people who like listening to complaints and problems of an unknown person? Positivity is really attractive and negative attitude is the biggest turn off. Your task is to attract lady’s attention and not to scare her away.

Showing respect to your woman by using polite words is very important. Familiarity would not be appreciated here at all. Remember that any woman loves being treated like a lady. That is why starting your introduction letter with greetings like: “Hi sexy one” or “Hello Hottie” would be a real mistake. Make some compliments instead to show your admiration for her looks. Russian women love compliments about their eyes, skin, hair.

What are the best things to talk about in the first letter? For the start, learn the woman’s ...
... profile, her interests and hobbies. If you have some things in common, you should write about them. If you have not found any common hobbies, you can comment some fact from her profile. For instance, if she has a child, ask her about his or her favorite activity or favorite subject at school. Do not speak about your disadvantages; keep them for the following letters. It is better to tell your good sides and how nice you are, but do not cross the line. Be honest and write about who you really are, and not who people want to see in you. Share the things that you think people will find interesting. You can write about your work and professional goals, the last book you read, favorite movies and music, your hobbies, friends, how you like to spending holidays and week-end. If you like to travel, speak about your travelling experience. Many Russian women are big animal lovers, and if you have pets, share some stories about them. Add your sense of humor and you will definitely succeed.

Telling about yourself, do not forget to ask your woman questions as well. Dialog is much more fun than a monologue. Writing about your work, you can ask her about her work, what career goals she has. What she enjoys about her job most of all, and what she dislikes. If you tell about your favorite movies, you can ask about her favorite movies, or her favorite actor and actress. Avoid asking too personal questions. You don’t know each other well. Many women find it difficult to open her heart to an unknown man right at the beginning.

Written and spoken languages differ. Let your bright personality show through phrases and words. Your first letter should be like an invitation for a dance and awake romantic feelings. Writing a love letter is a special art and with some extra efforts you will master it.