What Caused The Problems In Your Marriage?

By Author: Bishop McLaughlin
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Time is the most important thing we have.

When you dated you spent every spare minute together and that is how the love bond grew. When you got busy with life you let the relationship fail because you didn't feed and water it with TIME.

What are you showing to be more important to you?
TV, books, computer or your marriage?
What gets more time EVERY day?

This lack of time is one main reason why the marriage is in trouble.

It is easy to start feeling like "all I am is a maid, babysitter, meal ticket".....

The compliments don't keep going 5-10-15-20 years into the marriage. It isn't that we don't care; it is just lazy.

These feelings build a resentment that grows and shrinks the love. Until one day there isn't any love and you are just 2 people living in the same building.

It can be that simple.

It can even be simpler. For some people they think the honeymoon frantic sex is what love is. When things cool a little they start feeling neglected.

Fights over money, sex, children.......
Fighting DIRTY and making words HURT has a lasting ...
... affect.

Some what to FEEL important, Virile, pretty, smart..... We all have our own needs. When those stop being met......

That is when problems happen.
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