How To Know If You're In Love?

By Author: Chad Green
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Every half-an-hour, you and I will come across countless people throwing their ‘love' speeches around without actually having a slightest touch of what it means to be in a real love or even what love actually is! Of course you can't escape the hyping-up part thanks to those lovely friends out there no matter how hard you try on realizing, they get you moving if you know there is too much spice. And don't you dare say that I am too cold to appreciate those wild, crazy heart movements or that rich beautiful imagery that comes about.
For sure this planet inhabits millions of good-looking and caring people (or even different if that's what you usually use) but there is no clear way to get the perfect one out of this puzzling big sea of crushes.
If you are indecisive, thumbs up to you. There are some really essential things that make a pragmatic love, not the immature types that keep on coming and going.
To help you check on your compatibility, I have devised a love calculator that scores your case on the following grounds.
WHY ...
... THIS RELATION MEANS TO YOU?
You should brainstorm on ‘what are the things that I want out of this relationship?' List down everything you think love is part of. Keep it a secret and don't write cliché stuff that almost everyone talks about. The key is that every relationship is different in its own way and we are the ones to decide what inspires us to begin this love journey not Romeo and Juliet who had their own unique love.
BE SURE LOVE IS NOT LUST NOT EVEN THE OTHER WAY AROUND
Lust can make you hook up with the person-in-attention but as you grow old this feeling expires with nothing to offer to both of you all. Sometimes you get infatuated like wildly fanatical for a bonding but as time moves on you might say ‘Man! After all these years that we stayed, what I was thinking about?'
FEELINGS: the crux
What sort of emotions and sensations you have when you hang-out with the person or even talking for a minute or two? Do you feel isolated when that person is not around or even you have the most lively people around your table.
ONLY THIS AND THAT OR JUST WHATEVER IT HAS!
If you are waiting for the perfect one with perfect habits and perfect features that I can tell there is none. If you're attraction is only because he is a really really clever or she is the hottest in town but then you say he has this childish voice or she is fussy to have around then plainly painfully there is no future of this toy story. You must accept the person as a whole and if you can't then it's something else not love.
CAN YOU BRING THE MOON DOWN TO EARTH?
Do you have the guts to risk your life or money for the sake of their well being and do you think she or he can do the same for you? Do you think there is any meaning or value to what you do for him or her? Or it's just because you want to prove that your love is the true one.
Before you put decision to action
Love should bring positive attitude in your life not that ignorant and selfish one that makes you think you're cool to be around. It's not just about making love but there are several commitments that have to be fulfilled if you are trying to invite something new to your life.