Whispering Love

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Men primarily need trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval and encouragement. Women primarily need caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation and reassurance.

Men and women are generally unaware that they have different emotional needs. As a result, they don't instinctively1 know how to support each other. Men typically give in relationships what men want, while women give to men, what women want. Each mistakenly assumes2 that the other has the same needs and desires. As a result, they both end up dissatisfied or resentful3.

Both men and women feel that they give and give but that they don't get back. They feel that their love is unacknowledged and unappreciated. The truth is, they are both giving love, but not in a desired manner. Most of our complex emotional needs can be summarized as the need for love.
Men and women each have six unique needs. They're all Tag Heuer Replica equally important. Men primarily need trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval and encouragement. Women primarily ...
... need caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation4 and reassurance.

Certainly every man and women ultimately needs all these kinds of love. What is meant by primary need, is that fulfilling a primary need is required before one is able to receive and appreciate the other kinds of love. Without an awareness of what is important for the opposite sex, men and women don't realize how much they may be hurting their partners or depriving5 them of what they deserve.

Women generally don't realize the ways they communicate. They're unsupportive and hurtful to the male ego6. Here's a list of three common communication mistakes women make in relation to a man's primary love needs. The first, she tries to improve his behavior or help him by offering unsolic¬ited7 advice. He doesn't feel love because doesn't trust him. The second, she doesn't acknowledge what he does for her but complains about what he hasn't done. He feels taken for granted and unloved because she doesn't appreciate what he does. The third, she corrects his behavior and tells him what to do as if he were a child. He feels unloved because he doesn't feel admired.

For understanding a woman's primary needs, a man can be more sensitive to and respectful of her needs. The following shows three mistakes men make in relation Tag Heuer Replica Watches to a woman's primary emotional needs. The first, he minimizes the importance of her feelings and needs. He makes children or work more important. She feels unloved because he's not devoted to her and doesn't honor her as special. The second, he listens, but then gets angry and blames8 her for upsetting him or for bringing him down. She feels unloved because he doesn't respect her feelings. The third, after listening, he says nothing or just walks away. She feels insecure because she didn't get the reassurance she needs.

Many people give up when relationships become too difficult. Relationships become easier when we understand our partners' primary needs. Without giving more but by giving what is required, we don't burn out. To fulfill your partner you need to learn how to give the love him or her primarily needs.