How To Talk To Girls : Keeping Her Interested-00-6148

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It's the perfect setting. The mood is set. Your heart is pounding. Across the table, past the lit candle and vase of flowers sits the girl of your dreams. She is more beautiful tonight than ever before. You can't believe she agreed to go out with you, but there she is. Trouble is you're running out of things to talk about. You've already told her all about your awesome job, she's already seen your amazing car, and you've even let her in about your friends, your band, and your Playstation 3. So, what is left to talk about? Chances are it doesn't matter, because at this point she's already decided that you are never going to see the new dresser she just bought for her bedroom. Wait, what? That's right, amidst all your muttering about the wonderful things you've got going for you you've completely missed the point. Her.

You see gentlemen, women (and all people for that matter) don't want to talk about you, they want to talk about them. So how is that done exactly? Simple, when your girlfriend to be asks a question about your job, car, house or ant farm, simply try and reflect the conversation back on her job, car, house, ...
... or stuffed animal collection. You will also want to try and initiate questions about her. When talking about her job, ask if she gets along with her boss. When talking about music ask her what concerts she's been to, did she enjoy it, is there a concert she's always wanted to see? If so guess what you'll be doing on date number 2? Try and find out as much about her as you can. It's almost like you're a reporter getting to the bottom of the story and the story is your date, her life, her views, foods she likes, disagreements with her mother (careful with that one!), her goals, her dreams, just be interested in all things that have to do with HER!

Remember when discussing topics that are important to her it is very important to not have an opinion at the end of every sentence. Here's what I mean. Her: I love it when American Eagle has a big sale (like that ever happens). You: Oh yea, I love that store. Her: I just bought this top there last week. You: Really, I love the way it matches your eyes. Okay, so why do I say this? Two reasons, one: you are giving your opinions away much too easily, two: you are not engaging her in continued conversation. Try this instead. Her: I love it when American Eagle has a sale. You: You must really like that store. Her: Oh yes! it's my favorite see this one time me and Jenny went there and she thought I should get these pants that were just horrible, but I insisted on getting these awesome Capri's instead. You: did Jenny like the Capri's? Her: Yea, when she saw them she agreed that they were way cuter! We go to the mall together all the time. I got this top there last week! You: You know the mall doesn't close for another couple of hours, do you want to go after we finish dinner? Her: Really! Yea that would be so cool, I'm having a lot of fun on this date! You know maybe later you could help me with my new dresser. I need to move it into my bedroom!

Okay, so individual results may vary. Good luck and remember dating is supposed to be fun, so enjoy it!

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