To Overcome Children's Shortcomings, Parents Should Do Better Firstly

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The appropriate recognition is conducive to help children build self-confidence, but in real life, some parents, affected by the impact of educational theory, usually like to praise the child unprincipled, which finally result in a child lack self-consciousness, over-emphasis on the evaluation of other people, hope to get recognition even doing trifle or else refused to do. Similarly, excessive criticism will be hurt the child's self-esteem, so that children can't see themselves. Therefore, when the child goes wrong, parents need to point out its mistakes, help its absorption and correct shortcomings measured.

Many parents, especially the higher levels of schooling, consider "democratic" management in the family education seriously. No matter big and small, they are willing to convince their children people with reasons. In fact, the result is that the children have been spoiled. Why? The reason is that children, especially young children, lack of adequate experience and common sense and need to rely on parental guidance in many places. If there are too much democracy, it is easy to spoil a child, which make them become ...
... stubborn, self-willed whatever he wants. Therefore, for older children, you can convince them by reason, but for the young children, a mandatory education management is still essential.

For various reasons, there are more or less differences on educating their children for vast majority of parents. Wise parents would not discuss in the presence of the child's face, before educating their children, they reach the unity views. There are many parents who lack of communication ability on the issue of child education, dogmatic, and have an open quarrel in front of children. This phenomenon is a direct harm to the child, they would feel insecure and overwhelmed. Thus, in front of the children, parents should pay attention to maintain consistent views, not to quarrel.

Some parents sheltered their children under the wings of their own, even the children have the ability to do the things reluctantly. This excessive protection seriously disturbed the normal development of the child physically and mentally, resulting in a lack of independence, self-confidence, indecision, and even a lack of moral feeling and responsibility. In contrast, some parents always subjectively deny the child's words and deeds. Gradually, child's enthusiasm, self-motivated behavior will be killed. Self-esteem and self-confidence are relentlessly destroyed.

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