Rekindle The Love In Your Married Life

By Author: Tanya Malhotra
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Once in a while, almost every married couple passes through a phase- the phase where eventually the spark in their relationship starts to fizzle out.
By spark fizzles out, I do not mean that the love dies or that you want to cut ties with each other. It just means there is a need to rekindle that desire.
The next question that you may ask is, how do I know if my marriage is losing that spark? Well, here's what you should ask yourself first:
Do your spouse and you enjoy spending time together?
Are all those passionate kisses being replace with mere pecks?
Love-making has become a routine, happens infrequently, or not at all?
Answered yesany one of the questions above? You've found an answer to your question. Your marriage needs that spark reignited.
And coming to the most essential question: How? Well, below are a few pointers that will give your marriage that much-needed jumpstart!
Revisit the beginning:
Remember that first date, that first-ever conversation, the first time he dropped you home, the very first moments when the butterflies started?
The beginning of ...
... every relationship is power-packed with butterflies in the stomach, fantasies, desires, and a host of other feelings.
Walk down that memory lane because sometimes that is all you need to reignite an old flame.
Gift each other something:
Buy your spouse that piece of jewelry she’s been wanting for a long time. Or maybe buy your man that watch he likes. Even a simple hand-made gift works wonders. Or take gifting a notch higher and gift yourselves sex toys- something you both can have fun with.
A gift is a great way to make your spouse feel special.
Give each other some space:
Think of those good old dating days- when you’d spot your bae across the room! Distance often creates desire and makes you miss the person even more. So try giving each other that space; you never know what feelings it’ll stir up. After all, we need time away to remember what’s there at home waiting for us.
Say Sorry and Thank you:
We all make mistakes and say or do things we’re not meant to. Next time if you make a mistake, say sorry and move on!Your partner surprises you with something big or does something as simple as washing utensils, say thank you!
They’re mere words but can take your relationship a long way!
Be a good listener:
Most feelings are lost in talking. It's essential to really listen to your partner. Ask him about his day instead of complaining about yours. All your partner wants is to be heard. When you listen, you'll know what he or she wants. Simple, isn't it?
And most importantly, trust in your bond. Most relations go from hot to a slow burn, through ups and downs. And if you think things are going downhill right now, just remember- it will get better. Just show them you love them, and it will bring back the thrill in your love life.

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